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In a world often driven by profit and worldly success, Dr. Dee Stokes, founder of Stokes Consulting LLC, offers a refreshing perspective on leadership rooted in faith. Her mission, as she puts it, is to "cultivate champions in business and in life who live out the gospel practically."
Dr. Stokes emphasizes that living out one's faith in the marketplace isn't about overtly Christian jargon or forced Bible studies, but rather about embodying the fruit of the Spirit. "People know us by our fruit," she states, referencing Galatians 5:22-23: "love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, self-control." When leaders walk in these virtues, their faith becomes evident without a single word. This authentic expression of faith attracts others, opening doors for deeper conversations and opportunities to minister.
This principle extends to critical business decisions, even those that might seem counter-intuitive to conventional wisdom. Dr. Stokes shares a powerful example of hiring individuals based on their potential, even when personal preferences might suggest otherwise. "You have to be spiritually mature to say, we need this person on our team, even though there's something about this person that just doesn't jive with me or that irritates me," she explains. This approach, born from a coach's eye for untapped greatness, prioritizes the team's overall benefit and the individual's growth, even if their character isn't yet fully aligned with their calling.
The intersection of faith and finance is another area where Dr. Stokes demonstrates her commitment to Kingdom principles. Through her peer groups, 5% of membership fees are dedicated to a nonprofit ministry, directly funding missions and supporting initiatives like training pastors in other countries. This intentional generosity reflects a belief that business can be a powerful vehicle for global impact and spiritual transformation.
For Christian business leaders navigating today's complex landscape, especially in high-stakes environments like professional athletics, Dr. Stokes offers a clear challenge: define your values. In the "wild, wild west" of modern sports, where financial incentives often overshadow team cohesion and personal integrity, she urges athletes to consider their God-honoring values. "If they are faithful people, then they should have God honoring values. And that probably does not look like jumping from one team to the next every year," she asserts. This principle of valuing loyalty, teamwork, and long-term commitment over fleeting financial gain is a testament to the enduring power of faith-based decision-making.
Ultimately, Dr. Stokes encourages all Christian business leaders to focus on authentic living. By consistently demonstrating the fruit of the Spirit, leaders create an environment where others are drawn to the God within them. This organic attraction leads to genuine opportunities for prayer, mentorship, and sharing the gospel, transforming not just businesses, but lives. As Dr. Stokes powerfully illustrates, you never have to force faith; simply live it out, and the impact will be undeniable.
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Spiritual leader, educator, author, and coach in Thomasville, NC, building influential leaders who live out the Gospel with purpose.
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